I was wondering... well thinking about different people that come into your life. Some stay for a bit, while others just pass through. All of them serve a purpose in your life and you are happy to be around them, through the good and the bad.
But then one day you wake up and you cannot think of anything you have in common with some people around you. You long for that connection you once had, but then realise that all good things must come to an end... Actually in some respects some dear friends simply leave you with a negative energy everytime you see them. Somehow they make you feel inferior. Or let me rather say – somehow you let yourself feel inferior or inadequate. Then the question arises – do you break all connections to these friends or do you carry on trying to win back that connection, although it really hurts inside. Because although you might feel like your paths must split you really do long for that loving embrace...
4 comments:
a reason , a season or a lifetime Anch. Sometimes things run there course. a dear friend of mine tells me that i must weed my garden sometimes.
I think most relationships naturally come to an end when they have run their course or carry on running through your life if thats what meant to be
xxx
Any relationship takes effort Anch so if you feel sad that it has/is coming to an end and don't want it to, work on it. If it does not pan out and the effort is one sided all the time, you have to let go. It always leaves one with a sad feeling when you move on though, especially if it has been a long friendship. Fiona xx
Where are you Anchie - I miss you!!
See you at dinner club? XXX
Do you actually know how many people love and care about you?
If you want to go ahead and drown in your own misery. go ahead!
But you shouldn't want to. And you shouldn't!
Let yourself loose a little. Why don't you?
There are people out there who really care about you and who count you in in the scheme of things. Allow them to.
At the end of the day, it's not how they feel about you, but how you actually feel about yourself.
Been there, Anch, and understand more than you would think!
Just give yourself a chance. You are worth it!
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